The Gay Bears FAQ

No, there is no specific age requirement to be a Bear, but if attending a venue hosting an event, there may be age restrictions. Bears can be young or old. Some subgroups differentiate based on age, like Cubs, who tend to be younger and Grizzlies, who tend to be older.

No, hairiness is not a requirement. While thick or abundant body hair is typical, hairiness exists on a spectrum among Bears. Ultimately, self-identification as a Bear is most important.

Bears tend to have more significant, thicker body types. However, all body types are welcome in the Bear community, which values inclusion. Terms like chub, cub, or otter denote body type.  

Absolutely! The Bear community prides itself on being welcoming and friendly to newcomers. Attending Bear events is a great way to connect.

Yes, many cities have Bear-friendly bars, clubs, and other venues. Local Bear groups can advise on popular hangouts. Apps like Growlr also list Popular spots. Manbar in Blackpool, UK, hosts the Growlr Club.

Everyday Bear activities include camping, hiking, picnics, parties, beard-growing contests, games, cuddling, and more. Bears enjoy the social and community aspect.

Absolutely. Bear groups often march in Pride parades and hold their own Bear Pride events celebrating hairy men. Major cities have annual Bear Pride festivals.

The Bear community and drag culture overlap at times but are distinct. Some Bears participate in drag performances, and well-known drag queens may attend Bear events. However, most Bears do not engage in drag as much as mainstream gay culture. The Bear community places more emphasis on masculinity and natural presentation. However, the two communities often support each other's art and self-expression.

While limited, more Bear characters and themes appear in mainstream TV, film, and other media. Specific Bear media includes Bear magazine and Bear World TV.

Yes, the Bear Pride flag features a bear paw print on a black and white background. Bears also rally around "woof" as a communal call.

Many gay saunas and bathhouses host special events for Bears to socialise. These establishments recognise Bears as an important part of their clientele. Some saunas designate specific "Bear nights" featuring Bear-friendly amenities like larger towels and areas to lounge. Events may include Bear-themed parties, contests, vendors and more. Partnerships with Bear organisations are common.

While uncommon, some straight men who align with Bear aesthetics and community may identify as Bears. However, the term is predominantly associated with gay/bisexual men. 

Bears tend to favour rugged, natural styles. Everyday clothing includes flannel, leather, uniforms, and anything hairy and chest-revealing. Grooming ranges from clean to fully bearded.

Yes, several sites exist, including Bear411, BearForest, and Growlr. These provide a targeted space for Bears to connect romantically and socially.

Significant annual Bear events happen worldwide, like the BearScotFest organised by BearScots plus the International Bear Bash in Orlando, FL. There are also Bear weekends, campouts, conventions, and festivals nationally. 

The community itself is very welcoming rather than prestige-focused. However, some celebrate Bearness as an ideal masculine aesthetic.

Like others in the LGBTQ+ community, Bears may experience bias related to sexual orientation and gender expression. The focus is on pride in identity.

Absolutely. The Bear community aligns around masculine identity and presentation more than the gender assigned at birth.

Great resources include Bear organisations in your city, apps like Growlr, Bear blogs, books like "The Bear Handbook," and talking with your local Bear community members.